Nowadays it has become a trend to be in a relationship. It does not matter if you actually like that person or in love with him or her but society somewhat thinks it is a necessity to be with somebody. And if you happen to be single then there is something wrong with you. Personally, I have been single for well over 2 years and the most frequently asked question that I get is “why don’t you date?”
Well, for starters, maybe I do not want to date? Maybe people who are single are staying that way because they wish to and not because they are struggling to get dates. And there are a lot of other reasons which may frustrate a single person. Listed below are 5 of such things.
5. We are not alone
People have this weird idea that if you are not dating then you are alone. If you are not dating then you must be miserable and lonely. And that right there is a lot of trash talk. I mean, I personally have a lot of people in my life. I got my friends, family and work buddies with whom am constantly spending time with. If anything, if I did date, I wouldn’t be able to give her any time. So if you are assuming all single people are lonely then you are terrible wrong.
Well, for starters, maybe I do not want to date? Maybe people who are single are staying that way because they wish to and not because they are struggling to get dates. And there are a lot of other reasons which may frustrate a single person. Listed below are 5 of such things.
5. We are not alone
People have this weird idea that if you are not dating then you are alone. If you are not dating then you must be miserable and lonely. And that right there is a lot of trash talk. I mean, I personally have a lot of people in my life. I got my friends, family and work buddies with whom am constantly spending time with. If anything, if I did date, I wouldn’t be able to give her any time. So if you are assuming all single people are lonely then you are terrible wrong.
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